Recommended Reading

If you want to be happy, put your effort into controlling the sail, not the wind.
-Bill Brody
There are many books that can assist you in your time of need. To help save you time in your search for information here is a selection to get you started:

The New Rules of Marriage, What You Need to Know To Make Love Work
Terrence Real
How Loving Couples Fight, 12 Essential Tools for Working Through Hurt
James L. Creighton, Ph.D.

How We Love, A Revolutionary Approach to Deeper Connections in Marriage
Milan & Kay Yerkovich

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work,
A Practical Guide from the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert
John M. Gottman, Ph.D., and Nan Silver

The Good Divorce, Keeping Your Family Together When Your Marriage Comes Apart
Constance R. Ahrons, Ph.D.

The Five Keys To Mindful Communication
Susan Gillis Chapman
The 5 Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate
Gary Chapman
The Good Marriage, How & Why Love Lasts
Judith S. Wallerstein and Sandra Blakeslee

Taking the War Out of Our Words, The Art of Powerful Non-Defensive Communication
Sharon Strand Ellison

How To Be An Adult in Relationships, The Five Keys to Mindful Loving
David Richo

The Five Things We Cannot Change…and the Happiness We Find by Embracing Them
David Richo

I’m Right, You’re Wrong, Now What? Break the Impasse and Get What you Need
Xavier Francisco Amador

Forgive for Love, The Missing Ingredient for a Healthy and Lasting Relationship
Dr. Fred Luskin